OHH.. well said neato ( and kriston! )

That's exactly how I felt today e-mailing everyone.
They have been aware of what is going on and what we were looking for, but not to this extent ( and I'm pretty sure the Principal is unaware of everything). So I felt like I was opening up a can of worms and was sitting here waiting for the backlash.

I know that we are doing the right thing, DH is more adament than I am, so know that something must be done, as he doesn't insist on much of anything and I am usually the one to freak out.
Can't help but be afraid that everything is going to come back "normal" ( not that there is anything wrong with that)and I'll hear a bunch of "I told you so's"

Thanks everyone for the support,
Think of us in February!