UPDATE*** She im now positive that she knows WAY more then she lets on shes just hiding it as far as i can tell she isnt reading yet but she does apear to know letters, letter sounds, and which words begin with which letters she also apears to know more about numbers then i thought while she still is not willing to count 1:1 on her own she makes me count thing with/for her (i know she is capable just unwilling) i can hold up my fingers and say get this many blocks and then put my hand down and she will bring me that exact number of blocks (she has a great memory so this is not really counting) we also have been playing an addition game (me helping with the counting)and she now understands the concept of adding but still isnt counting
(lol BTW not hothousing just a homeschooler trying to figure out what my child is capable of has been slow going i acctually do very little teaching because she is unresponsive to teaching we mostly just play little games that help me evaluate what she has learned on her own)