I guess my gut feeling is that if this stuff were actually a major issue, she would have brought it up sooner.

It reminds me of the stuff his K teacher said--i.e. yes, he can do academic work, but he lacks social and gross motor skills. Oddly, the 2nd grade teacher didn't complain about his social or gross motor skills at all. It's like they have to find something to ding him on. Sigh.