oh, I so feel for you! I'm in Washington State and so can't speak to the CT law, as the emotional pain, it sounds VERY FAMILIAR. Our son was 8, in 2nd grade, and also said he just couldn't do it anymore.
Our solution was pretty radical - there is an alternative public school 25 miles from us which is set up to provide "enrichment" courses for homeschooling families. We pulled him from 2nd grade that very week and haven't gone back.
There ARE no gifted programs in our school district, so we didn't bang our head too much because of that.
DO WHAT FEELS BEST FOR YOUR SON! I know you know that but I want to add my total support for this. Our son was literally twitching and chewing on himself and when we listened to him it was incredibly important for his self-concept. It took a few months actually, but then he was back to his sunny, eager self.
You are the best mom for your son and I wish you all all all the best. It's heartbreaking seeing your child in mental anguish.
YES to the "he's home sick" suggestion. Sounds like he really needs a break
Last edited by Barbara; 11/19/08 08:28 PM.
