Thank you for the replies. Tonight was interesting...dd asked for her Dadda to read her stories at bedtime. This was a first in about a year! I was really happy about it!!! Grinity, that is graet advice...thank you. I will work on dd's relationship with my husband. I think that is key right now. I would feel a lot better about everything if I felt I could leave her with him and she would be just as happy with him as she is with me. A big thing with our daughter is that I understand her completely...and no one else does. Iunderstand what she says and I understand what she is talking about. She will say something like "c--- likes the beautiful store with the wonderful colours" and I know she is telling me she likes ToysRUs. Dh would be wondering what the heck she is talking about and that would not be a good feeling for her. I know that just comes with spending time with her.
Anyhow...my thoughts tonight (like I said they seem to change regularly) are that our daughter will not attend any preschool next year. I will stay home with her again and we will do things together. I will look into Art Gallery classes, Conservatory of Music classes, we will use our museum membership...continue kindergym and look into other classes.
Thank you for pointing out that her near future may have struggles and that for now one option is to build our relationship and enjoy it. That is my theory that I am going by right now!
The preschool that we have to her name down for is not a gifted preschool. It is just a preschool that is attached to the private school that I was hoping she would go to. Of course I second guess that choice daily too! The city I live in has NO gifted schools at all. I am going to start another thread asking about school opinions.
Thank you all again. I am so thankful for this forum and for all of you!
