Hi Jenny,
Could you see if there is a network of homeschoolers in your area and work out a "timeshare" type of deal with the other parents? You could check the monitoring conditions and soundness of the group. Is your son miserable where he is? Is he getting picked on? (ours was) Is there one school in the district that's better than the others and maybe you should fight to get him there? We took our dist. to court for a priv. placement but it took thousands of dollars and we lost although the state nailed them for a false IEP. It's been 15 yrs. but I remember the despair very well. My heart goes out to you. Have you thought of moving? (researching a better dis. that provides better service?) Also, see if your county has specialty high schools so you can plan for then. A marine tech one helped our son greatly; they meet true peers in these schools and class sizes are smaller. I'll be thinking of you and praying for this tough time.