Originally Posted by acs
I love the contrast between our two kids! I hope it is instructive to folks who are trying to figure out the best fit for their kids.

The answer does not lie solely in the IQ numbers. You have to know your kid and listen to what they are telling you (verbally or nonverbally). [I would even guess that there are MG and ND kids who have personalities like CFK's DS and for them school probably wouldn't be a good fit either
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So true! This is something I have taken to heart - our DS is HIMSELF, not me nor my DW, nor my dad or anyone else.