Hi Jon's mom,
don't buy what 'everyone' says about you overreacting. Unless they have all raised 17 happy and successful kids who taught themselves to read at age 3, ok?
Check out Deb Ruf's book or website - Losing our minds- gifted children left behind, to see if those quirks are part of the typical "alternate developmental path" of unusually gifted kids. You can do a phone consult with her, and I will keep looking for Southern California names for you. But you definitly want someone familiar with "your kind of gifted" which is much rarer than "MOR Gifted" ((middle of the road gifted))
You have a few more years before the YSP kicks in, but tell us more about the quirks and we'll share as best we can, ok?
Best Wishes,
Trin
