We have not sought professional help for our son in this regard, but have used the advice of professionals for ourselves in learning how to deal with different issues. Both times we had our son tested we asked for help with how to manage issues such as anxiety, strong-will and control issues and anger related to perfectionism and competitiveness. The advice we received both times was very helpful and gave us new directions for dealing with our son.
Our son saw the school social worker on a very casual basis to address some anxiety issues that had surfaced there. I think his involvement with her was both positive and helpful. Nothing too extended or deep but just enough special one-on-one attention from a different perspective to help him think about some things.
I would seek help again should we be in a position to do so. I would encourage you to find a professional who is knowledgeable about needs of GT kids and who practices from a family dynamic perspective. I think your involvement as a parent is very important and the child should not be treated as the patient in isolation. The whole family should be involved if appropriate, IMHO.
I agree with Neato, trust your gut. If you feel that you need help or your child does go for it and find someone who can support and empower you through the rough times.
