Unfortunately I can't help you with your local issues. We're in PA and I've heard many stories about not being testing until 3rd grade. In PA we have a state mandate that says that you can request testing as early as K. But I'm not familiar with VA's standards (although I *am* a Hokie and damn proud of it!).

But there are probably others on the group that can offer advice...

And again, welcome.

JB