Cathy,
I've never had any luck with that endeavor.
Perhaps if you can write up a one page list of examples of what your child can do, and ways to help your child do more, you may get somewhere.

If there is any other way to direct your efforts on behalf of your daughter - take that other way.

I hope I'm wrong here, but I think this is one of those "the world goes as it will, not as you or I would have it" situations.
Grinity

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