JB: Yes, that seems like a good way to think about it - what is your "in". What is the reason, in other words, that it is appropriate for you to want to take the teacher's time? Our "in" won't be based on a skip, like yours, but rather on the prior arrangements with the principal. But it has been really helpful for me to see that that's what's at stake in setting up the meeting. It should have been obvious to me (D'oh! Slaps forehead) but thanks to you guys for helping me work it through.

Good luck, JB, on your meeting. Is it coming up soon?

BB