Thanks for your concern indigo - I'm not too worried about the school identifying our family in these forums, but it is something to keep in mind. As there is still much planning being done, I feel like this is a great time in the process to collect information and wait for our next meeting. We are definitely making progress and our relationships are good, so I am starting to feel more confident that we will get there eventually. Baby steps I guess. It's always good for me to come here for some perspective before I meet with the team again.