my dd was like this, and still is somewhat -- unable to hear part of a conversation without knowing every molecule of what is going on, making up some rules we need to follow about the situation and, at least in the past, getting upset if I would say all that was a bit much.
she does now have a diagnosis of adhd, and one of the major issues is an inability, some of the time, to stop talking ....verbally commanding the room, or something like that. Exhausting, for sure. Especially because the rest of us are just a bunch of introverts who want to be left alone.
Getting better as she is more in tune with it, and we are able to be nicer to her about it as it has gotten a bit under control.
