In my quest to learn more about ASD vs. typical gifted "quirkiness" I came across the 2 items below.They may have been mentioned here before, but they are new to me. It appears that several here are struggling to figure out their kid like I am so maybe these will be helpful.

Giftedness/Asperger’s Disorder Checklist (GADC)© Prereferral Checklist

http://mcgt.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/%CB%86x-Giftedness-Asp.Dis_.Checklist.pdf

http://sengifted.org/archives/articles/counseling-multiple-exceptionality-and-psychological-issues