Is there any way you can withdraw her from this school and find one more accommodating to her interests and needs? Can you homeschool for the rest of the year? I, too, would be so worried dropping her off. It sounds horrible.
One of my boys is a proud nerd and even though I don't think he's weird (of course I don't-- I'm his parent!), it's possible other people do, and he would be the target of bullying at a normal school. We were able to find a charter school that's accelerated and full of nerdy kids like him who celebrate all the ways they're different from "normal" kids. My son had only two close friends in elementary and middle school, but now at this nerd high school, he's got a large social group and is very happy.
If there's not an alternative school nearby (ours isn't nearby, but it's worth the drive), perhaps you could do online school?
Kids can be so mean, and it can be so damaging. I just don't think kids should have to face constant bullying and meanness. I would turn mama bear and address it with the school or pull her out of there.
