Your DD and mine are like peas in a pod. It breaks my heart to read this it really does.
We have been lucky in that we found a cognitive psychologist and our DD is working with him so things have stabilized here - or at least are horizontal instead of in a full on nose dive.
Our DD was skipped a grade but as everyone here with an HG+ kid knows that only delays the inevitable because the issue is how fast they learn not mere exposure. Kids like this can absorb, make connections and synthesize way faster than NT kids. She has been expressing the same disenchantment as your DD at times this year too.
Some of this may be just growing pains but it is an anxiety inducing experience to watch it happening with your own kid.
Sending positive thoughts your way!
