Hi Kriston,
You're probably right - I should ask the school what they've got available. For the most part I read those lists (eg Ruf's) and a lot of things don't leap out at me, but then he'll do/say something that really makes me look. And my younger boy too - a few months ago he surprised us by tossing out answers to his big brother's sums while jigsawing, but if he catches you quizzing him there's no way he's going to participate.
I'd love to know more about my boys - what makes them tick. If only there was a manual! I don't think I'd quite sell my soul for ultimate knowledge, but I might be tempted to trade a few things to get a better look at my children.
Thanks for your thoughts.