I'd see if you can get away with coloured gloss and tinted moisturiser. Some good quality products along with a book on how to apply?

I'll hold off as long as possible with my dd but I really wish my mum had put a little time into helping me develop my appearance. I think I missed out on some professional opportunities and perhaps some "high caliber" dating because I came a cross as very unsophisticated in my appearance in my late teens. I hope to give dd a feeling that make up / stylish dressing is a way of putting your best self forward rather than something vain people do which was the prevailing attitude in my home growing up.