This is more of a sigh of desperation but we just got off the phone with Dr. Silverman and she thinks our other 10yr twin daughter is also 2e with SPD and CAPD. Deep breath...our family can manage even more OT/VT/etc. appts. As disappointing the news, just glad to finally get a definitive answer to what we suspected. Ok, whimper over..if anyone has any recommendations for dealing with SPD and CAPD, feel free to send them my way.