Thanks aeh. Those look like good resources.

One thing I'm considering is telling him that going to the psychiatrist while the first step towards medication, simply means they will consider it for his case and it isn't a done deal. Hopefully the doctor I choose will be good and explaining why this is the right thing for him. The recommended Dr. is someone who regularly works with gifted teens, so if we can get in with him perhaps the professionals will do a better job than I.