Thank you so much everyone! I began my research as soon as I found out the diagnosis but of course it overwhelmed me. We are currently working on IEP information. The specialist sent over a 10 page report with "suggestions" of what D's needs and the full report which should be about 100 pages will be sent in a couple weeks. The one thing I loved was her constant notations of using positive reinforcement and the fact that he can't control it so any hard work on his part regardless of the outcome should be praised.