Thanks for all of the wonderful replies!

St. Pauli Girl- Yes, it was the WPPSI-III. Totally agree with the, "you've seen one EG child, you've seen one EG child" remark. So true at the school. I'm starting to feel that my own child's laziness is her personal coping strategy to minimize her perfectionism. To the school's credit, after the MAP scores came in they immediately bumped her into a new, more advanced math section.
KADmom- I enjoyed your realization about your son being a great writer even if it's not evident everywhere yet. I feel the same thing myself sometimes which is why I appreciated el Duderino's, Cookie's and Suevv's good point about not worrying and being patient about things and enjoying the ride. Again, thank you!