I have suspicions that dd may have Asperger's and one benefit of the gifted program she is in is they have a social worker that comes to the class and works on social skills with the students. Dd even told me that she finds the social skills class very helpful and told me that she relates to the "Unwonderer" character
That character seems to come from the
Social Thinking website. Have you discussed your concerns about Asperger's with the small private school? Might they also offer social skills support?