ah well - took the plunge and called both schools and left messages.

2nd choice school rang straight back, yes ma'am we have several gifted kids, all on different programs depending on their ability and social skills. Some are grade skipped too. We have several agencies we work with when we need to and won't you please bring your daughter in asap to meet us. We would like to know who we are getting the following year so we can plan accordingly. Oh and yes you are doing the right thing.

Woohoo