Thanks all - some great ideas, black cat that is us!
I think I am going to try a few ideas directed toward OE side of things and if after a month or 2 if we don't see any success we'll go down the road of SPD diagnosis. I really want to have a plan before school starts.
I think we are just now stating to see the difficult/special considerations of having a gifted kid, TBH there has been a rather large amount of denial in our house about the gifted stuff and this too, but I think everything is escalating so rapidly we now have no choice but to accept a few truths and deal with some issues...
