Wow! Thank you Aeh, Portia and PolarBear

I grok what you have all said and I will read up on all your comments and suggestions.
Aeh, I have called my daughter and we will revisit her symptoms and also have her take a good look at DS and get her observations. It has been many years and I could be missing what's right in front of me.
Yes, unfortunately we were told that this midwest children's hospital serves a lot of kids in the region and so wait times COULD reach 2-3 months for just the reports, depending on the local schools (seasonal workload). We could get lucky and get it sooner, but I am hopeful we could get some feedback before that.
We are scheduled for PT eval in 2 months, OT eval next week and I won't wait to implement things if it's what he needs.
I will return to give more info as soon as I can.
Thank you all so much!!!
Sincerely,
Lucky