Polar bear Thank You! I feel more motivated already! I just needed to know what to do!

I get your bit about being open ended about what the problems are. Just document and describe the issues, not go in looking for a particular diagnosis. Got it. smile
I appreciate that you spelled out for me what I can do to gather information and document the actual issues. Very good ideas! I am going to do each step you suggest!
He does randomly use upper and lower case and often forms letters from the bottom up (mostly) the use of space on paper is bad and makes it less legible. He makes weird pained expressions when he writes, reverses the letter S often. His griplooks ok to me. He finally will draw a bit. He used to refuse. It looks like kindergarten drawings, and not good ones at that.
This from the kid who just finished the first Harry Potter book and has good comprehension. He reads obsessively. He does math in his head because he won't write it. There is a limit to that though!