Yes, it's confusing.

Portia, DD7 feels she's in a "boyish" body because it has not developed into a woman's body yet.

Tallulah, I don't think DD7 is gay, although I would want to help her with understanding that and am listening carefully for that possibility. But what she is saying is she is female and wants to feel more like a female.

ashley, yes, DD7 is upset she cannot have a woman's body yet when she feels like a woman. She apparently does not feel like her undeveloped little body suits who she is.

Well, I guess this is just our special DD's issue. I thought maybe somebody else had run across this kind of thing, but I think it's just us.