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as for the 'heads-up', I totally agree that is very helpful in understanding what you might be in for ...
Only after our ds came along, did I find out from my dh that his nickname was 'destroyer' when he was a kid. My brother also had the same nick name~ so our gene pools were unlikely to produce the 'sit and play quiet' type kid.

Sigh, bumpy but fun ride. wink

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