My DS15 has some sensory issues with clothing but not as severe as you describe. At one point in 6th grade he would only wear one set of clothing. It was a major problem, as he favorite shirt was falling apart and he would wear it even if stinky & dirty. He haven't done sensory therapy, so I can't help you there. What I did at the time was deal with other issues he was having (anxiety) and I bend over backwards to find him some clothes that he would wear. A friend suggested these supersoft pimma cotton shirts that he still wears most of the time.
Have you ruled out a medical reason? You mention the walking on her toes? Have you ruled out her being on the autism spectrum? Do you have a diagnosis from a professional? A physical therapist or neuropsyc?
Last edited by bluemagic; 07/07/14 11:03 PM.