Find a gifted someone who is either studying part time or just graduated. Make sure they have a drivers license. Make sure they understand more gentle parenting approaches so that they can give the compassion and understanding.

This worked so well for us - she really got my boys and now still loves them and visits them and hangs out with them, babysits for me even though she has other things to do.

Mom to 3 gorgeous boys: Aiden (8), Nathan (7) and Dylan (4)