He wasn't able to manage preschool, no, this was the ASD people. I had a similar problem, when I was a teenager, and being encouraged to learn 'social skills' aka 'present as a girl, and don't go lookin' queer now, eh?'

Not sure they're really homophobic, just trying to explain to him what "marriage" means... and being wrong, at least in the context of his home life. Also, our area has a lot of very conservative Muslims, who may be re-enforcing some of what we're trying to undo.

DS1: Hon, you already finished your homework
DS2: Quit it with the protesting already!