Just wanted to say that since giftedness is in your family and you have more than one child, it is great to research sibling issues and even think in terms of the future.

Because siblings are more genetically related to each other than to the parents, don't worry about what outsiders think, just focus on helping your family.

Gifted families are really interesting. One child can think they are 'normal' and then grow up and have a gifted child who is just like their identified gifted sibling.