Thanks a lot for all the answers smile (it's me again, Isa)

DD was diagnosed with a visual problem when she was 3 and has been some months following visual therapy until we got into trouble because of the person who did the therapy ... I have made her to do some basic eyes exercises since and now finally I have found a behavioral optometrist in Spain that will see her when we go to see my parents.

And there is a BIG discrepancy btw IQ test and academic performance. For example she is not reading yet, she does not even know the whole alphabet ! And she 'cannot' (or rather will not) count more than 20....

The problem is that tis discrepancy is the result of several factors: one maybe the visual problem, the other is the multilingualism (remember, she is being educated in four languages). Then the fact that as intelligent as she is, she has to be exposed to new concepts and facts to learn about them, and the last one is her own perfectionism and lack of trust into herself.

I think the last one is the one that needs more attention.