frugalmom, have you looked for an independent tester, instead of through a hospital? It wouldn't surprise me much if the hospital ones really do only see head-injury cases.
I tried some "learning disorder" centers, a community health center, several mental health centers, 2 state colleges, and 2 dyslexic centers besides some hospitals in my state and a neighboring state. I can't find any individual psych on any website, etc. to even try that is within probably 500 miles. I'm in the middle of nowhere I guess when it comes to options.
It sounds like you have a good situation - count your lucky stars!!!!!