Thanks for the suggests. I will definitely look into the areas you mentioned. I'm just trying to gather as much information as possible before I visit. I lived in central PA such a short time many years ago. I can't say I have a feel for it. My DH has commuted via airplane for 18 months and gets the general feeling of Reading. He is not impressed shall we say. Unfortunately, his coworkers have very different needs and don't really have helpful suggestions.
I pretty much know I am not going to replace my current situation but I'm hoping to get a school that will work with us and we can give it a try. Homeschooling is not off the table, but my DD really loves being around peers daily. She has complained this week as we our on our 3rd Snow day tomorrow.
All input is very appreciated!