I was very stressed just before starting school, up through to finding a solution after a couple of years. The was when I was googling and posting here. I can't imagine getting to nine or ten years old and not having something sorted out is as common and wrangling with first grade.

There is a relatively large number of people who are very eager to see their two year old as unusual, but that doesn't always mean they're unusual. They would disappear as the child got older.