thanks, all.
one of the other things I'd like to do is send pictures to her, but if they won't come through as attachments that would be annoying. Perhaps it is improved for that, as they did see to feature that in their demo. Will do some testing.
Initially I thought google account also, with monitoring, but the influx of crap is so HUGE for my account at least, how do you deal with that?

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