have you considered unschooling? It's at home, with no set curriculum, so no barriers at all to her interests. And there are many unschooling groups around you can find for her to mix with and work/play with...

It's the only thing that works for my oldest (extrovert, highly social, anti anything that resembles school work), and it works well for my middle child (introvert and into workbooks etc)

Mom to 3 gorgeous boys: Aiden (8), Nathan (7) and Dylan (4)