It struck me today that DS' situation is similar to Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer's.
I told him that like Rudolph, he has a gift that others will not understand, but someday will appreciate.
Like in twenty years when they are looking for a job.
Another option is that Girls can be more fun and open to sensitive boys.
Also, compliments and curious questions can go a good way bridge a lot of waters. "Whatcha doin?" "Oh, that's cool." We've talked to DS7 since kindergarten about trying and throwing himself into what another kid is doing. Fun is fun and doesn't have to fit all of his agendas. What better way to learn something new than to try what other's are doing. It seems to be working out, first couple months in third were rocky.
