I can relate, cym, we are in a similar situation. I am on the fence for DD5 for next year. We are also investigating homeschooling. It pretty much comes down to the teacher. And, even though DD8 had a great year last school year, there is no guarantee the everyday pull-out will continue, it'll be up to her teacher.
I have found the school willing to work with us, especially the principal. It's a lot of energy, though.
Good luck with DS, let us know what you decide to do.
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