mon - I have never met this school therapist. DS used to have a different one last year in preschool (though she still works there as well from what I know). I didn't even understand what the note he brought home meant at first. I thought that I was the one to meet with the principal. So I called school and the principal told me that no, he was the one who met with DS yesterday after it happened. All he said was the therapist asked DS to write his name and he wouldn't and pushed and punched her. So I know this is not the whole story. But asking DS directly makes him really upset (asking him about any issues he has at school just get him upset and he starts lying, and saying he doesn't remember and just does anything to wiggle out of the conversation). I might wait till the parent teacher conferences in a week and ask then when I have a one on one with his teacher (I believe this incident happened while having therapy in class) and will get more info about the whole OT thing we have going at that point.