My hubby has a good friend whose wife used to say things about me "teaching" or "drilling" my DD8, and it used to make me SO CRABBY. Then I realized that it was more about her insecurity as a parent than about my daughter's intelligence....

Now I just laugh and say, "DD is DRAGGING me behind her as she rockets through things!" because it's the truth!! DD always laughs so hard when I say that, because she LOVES the visual she gets from it!