My DS just started preschool. He is in the 99th percentile in height, so he does look a year older than he is, so this helps disguise him as a typically developing child. The program is for 24-36 mos and he is 30 months.
After school, we all go to the park and talk while the kids play. I need advice on what to say when the parents notice his advanced language/cognitive skills. I have been saying things like (cringing as I type), "He's one of those kids that focuses on language, not motor skills". But as I move through the "denial phase", I know this isn't true and now I feel like I'm lying. I need to respond in a way that is truthful, casual and not apologetic, however respectful and sensitive to the what other parents might be feeling about their child's development.
Questions for you:
#1 What is your response when someone says, "Your child does what? I can't even imagine mine doing that!"
#3 Is this issue something that I need to just learn to live with and not worry about others judging us (because I know people think I'm drilling him with flashcards)?
What has your journey been like with new parent-friends?
Thank you in advance
