Remember your dd is going to really feel this. It is a slap in the face rejection of who she is and she will need your support to see this as a misunderstanding of her skills and abilities, not a personal rejection. Like if a teacher is out to get you, or always takes off because your circles aren't round.
I wanted to second what mon said here - this really impacted my ds, and not in a good way. By the time he was in 4th grade he was very aware that he had a challenge, he wanted help with his challenges, and he saw me trying my best to advocate and his school constantly battling me and not helping him.
polarbear
