Oh I can so relate to the re-arranging furniture. The baby proofing we had to do for miss HG+ from 6mth to 2.5yrs, yikes! She also wasn't overly academic but was miserable at school, so I feel your pain. I have no idea what to suggest though as our system is different here... We tested privately and organized a skip despite her not being insanely ahead for age it was 100% what she needed.