Keep it that way....Homeschool. It would be easier than the constant fight. You sound like me with my DD10, my husband taught her in school for 2 yrs and we finally got the school to skip her. She does lots of reading her own books (that her teacher allows her to "sneak" in because they are above her allowed grade range and books like logic and thinking skills workbooks. With my DD8 coming up behind her we decided it was better just to homeschool her rather than go through all the fighting with the school again. Let her socialize with extra curricular activities.