No real advice, but atleast the year is almost over! Sounds like your child's teacher is a close relative to mine. These type of ultra structured teacher who want to make all the kids fit in the box really shouldn't teach k, in my opinion. My ds also hates to color- always has, but doesn't want to be told he is doing scribble scrabble either. It's so hard. I do agree with the above poster that if things start to look like this next year, you are going to have to intervene quickly.