Pemb, the level of misbehavior you are facing is horrifying. You may need a lawyer. Keep documenting **everything** (I hope you are pasting these posts into a log at home, with dates). You need a log of every instance of your DD showing school-related anxiety, of accommodations not being given, etc. The works.
I wonder whether it is worth you and Consultant having a meeting with New DSS and Superintendent. But only Consultant can help you figure out what is strategic at this point...
Hang in there. Your DD is entitled to an education.
DeeDee
